When the year is fresh and the calendar pages are crisp and spacious, our commitments and resolutions seem like adventures. “We can do this!” we declare as we gather the family around and open our Bibles to Genesis. Unfortunately, by Epiphany, the luster has worn off our resolve, and family devotions have begun to feel like a chore. And then there’s Leviticus . . .
Lora A. Copley and Elizabeth Vander Haagen have prepared a guide that does the heavy lifting of plotting a course for family worship. Teach Us to Pray is organized into seasons based on the church calendar: Advent, Christmas, Epiphany, Lent, Easter, and Ordinary Time. The readings are dated for long-term use through 2027. An introduction to each section provides background and front loads a challenge to the parents along with a heads up about materials and recommended activities for planning purposes.
In the process of teaching the small people in our lives to worship, our own hearts learn the practice anew, and as I perused each day’s lesson for Advent, the eight-part pattern began a drumbeat in my thinking about exactly what worship entails:
- Preparing – What environmental conditions will enhance the experience?
- Inviting – God is there already. Invite Him into the center of your worship.
- Stilling – In the silence, ask the Spirit to help you pay attention to God.
- Singing – Music and lyrics for thematic songs are provided.
- Reading – When we read Scripture together, we hear the voice of God.
- Dwelling – What questions come to mind in relation to the text?
- Praying – Thank God and praise Him for the day’s wonderful truth!
- Blessing – Words from Scripture invite you to pray a blessing over your family.
How would my personal, grown-up variety of worship be enhanced if it was continually being shaped by these action verbs?
Encouragement for Worship at Home
Family worship took on many forms during the growing up years of our four rowdy sons. Often we gathered at meal time, but there were seasons when we occasionally claimed a Saturday night for a more intensive teaching session — followed by popcorn or some other treat. Three principles come to mind that guided us through those important years:
1. Persevere. Don’t give up!
If you forget, remember next time.
If you fail, do better next time. Just be sure there IS a next time.
2. Take grace.
Conversations about spiritual things with my kids never go as smoothly as I plan them. Sometimes my words sound brittle or awkward even to my own ears, and now that they are older, even if they are gracious enough not to roll their eyes, I wouldn’t blame them if they did! However, the Word of God is living and powerful. He keeps His promises, and He is able to incline our children’s hearts toward truth, even if we are unhappy with our own skill in delivering it to them.
3. Maintain a long view.
Even the most serious of cross hymns sung during Holy Week lose their solemnity when there is a St. Bernard in the dining room throwing his head back and howling a descant in accompaniment.
Advent candles set a worshipful tone and help us to focus. They have also been known to ignite a paper napkin that somehow went airborne during family worship.
I can laugh at these aberrations now because they are part of our family’s story. They remind me that worship is part of life, and as we guide our children’s faith-formation, daily times of family worship will set up a rhythm of faithfulness that will enable our children to envision a life in which God and His Word are part of every season and every day.
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